Change

Girls seriously stop doing this, you are all becoming a total shame for the rest of us, at least what’s left of us, we the few others who are on the endangered species list,
In theory, as Kuwaiti females graduate from high school and college with the highest marks, a person would assume that through out generations and generations of highly educated females we would be dominant by now, at least career wise, but really I don’t get it, something happens like right after they get a job

My interpretation is that once a female has a degree and a job her total attention is shifted on getting married, and it’s true if you paid any attention what so ever to the behavioral changes in females after they get a job you can divided them mostly in two groups;

first I’d call them “the waiting” in definition those who put their lives on hold waiting for the moment they become wives and then life can resume, meanwhile they are already practicing the attitude of a 40 year old married woman with 5 kids and in their heads planning out their “future married life” to the finest detail

The other group I’d call them “the go getters” those who are out their snuffing for their prey all ready dressed up and on continues alert to jump in at all times,

Girls you are embracing us, what the hell happened to you?
You are Muslims for god’s sake doesn’t believing in destiny means any thing to you? If you are meant to be married it will happen, so quite the crap and do something of an actual worth!!!

what if you were meant to be married at 30 do you really want to go on waste a good 7 or 8 years in an empty pointless circle for either group,

I do believe that we are good enough that we have equal resources as men and probably even more, and if we can just start thinking straight our force can make a change make a difference each one in her desired filed,

alright even for those who can’t make that dramatic change, I heard all the lame excuses already, but at least I’m sure you can take 2 hours of your precious time two or three times a week and do something,

it shocks me to the core to know that a human being can spend an entire year without doing anything or even moving one step in any direction, at least, in case you don’t know the brain cells are like muscles so if you don’t train it, the poor thing, will be inactive, so please develop your brain,

alright forget the better good, don’t help others or anything, can’t you just do that to live your life as you? Don’t you want to have a character that is unique? Do you know what we are? We are individuals, there is nothing more relieving than living who you truly are, just stop being a copy of someone else and be you, don’t say I don’t know what to do or I don’t have the energy for it, figuring out what you want is part of the journey and there is nothing binding you can always change your mind

Cheers,
O